How to Stop Giving a Fuck and Why

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This may be a touchy subject for some, but as the title reads, I don’t give a fuck.  The quicker you soak up the lesson, the sooner you can free yourself from the chains of what is most likely holding you back from achieving your best in life.

One of the biggest issues we all tend to have in life is that we tend to care about too many things that do not have any affect on us whatsoever!  Whether it is politics, religion, your friends, family members, whatever, stop giving a fuck about things that are not going to help you to reach your life goals.  It’s your life, period.  Live the way you want to live.  Anyone telling you to conform is a mindless drone in my opinion.

When you are growing up, your parents are there to guide you “to a point” to set you upon a path.  The problem is most parents fuck you up before you have a chance to reach your potential.  What i mean by this is, growing up you are told a couple basic things:  “Be careful!” or “Don’t talk to strangers!”  That mentality will not help you later on in life when you are trying to make your way and reach your goals.

To be a modern viking you need to be dangerous.  When I say that I don’t mean a psychopath or a blood curdling murderer.  You need to live your life dangerously, experience new things, face your fears.  If you run away from everything in life, you’ll just be a sad little fuck who never accomplishes anything.  As for the “Don’t talk to strangers” curse, maybe as a child you should be cautious as to who you converse with, however, later on in life you will quickly learn strangers have everything you want.  In owning my own businesses, I MUST talk to every person I can because in my point of view, they have my money, and I have to figure out how to get it from them to me.  Following the stupid mantra of “don’t talk to strangers” would absolutely fuck my business.  You will not achieve success by worrying about something as dumb as not talking to strangers.

Find Out Who You Are and Start BEING YOU!

You might have to disconnect yourself from the world for a bit to find out who you are, why you are here and what interests you in life.  Keep in mind that the only thing stopping you from being you , is YOU.  If you let others opinions of you take hold and control your progress, you will either end up a loser like them or just fail. There is a mentor I pay close attention to because he is on point when it comes to not giving a fuck.  The video is below:

The world has enough people that look and act the same.  Break out!  Be different!!  Wear your weird PROUDLY!!!  If you look at those who have become successful in their lives, you will notice a common denominator in them all:  They do their own thing their way.  The write their own story the way they want it not based upon what others around them thought about them.  You are going to have haters.  You are going to have those who think you are a nutcase….FUCK THEM!  It is better to be viewed as a nutcase and be You than to conform to what others think about you your whole life and miss out.

We have to break these molds that we are cast into because they limit our potential in life.  You can be who ever you want to be, if that means you want to be a millionaire, then take the appropriate actions that will get you to that goal.  If you want to wear furs and be a mountain man, fuck it!!  Do it!  IT IS YOUR LIFE!

We have been conditioned during our lives that everything has to be one way and that is not the case.  The internet (which I think is brilliant and a curse at the same time) has shown us that you can achieve whatever you want in life if you take massive action towards reaching that goal.  If you sit in your parent’s cellar and think…one day…guess what, one day will NEVER come.  You don’t become successful by being a leech or sitting on your ass getting fat.  You create a goal, and you fucking go for it.  Whatever it takes.  You have to be obsessed about your goal if you want to see it to fruition.

If your parents ever say, “I like you just the way you are…” I see that as a curse and a threat meaning…”don’t change, don’t go after your goals…stay the same”  FUCK THAT!  Grab life by the balls and make it your bitch.  THAT is how you will become successful.  You don’t need 20 books and 300 hours of lecture.  I am summing it up for you in a single blog post.  If you truly want to be successful in your life physically, mentally, emotionally or spiritually, you MUST:

  • Find out who you are
  • Find Out Why You Are Here
  • Find Out what Interests You
  • Find Out if You Can Monetize Your Interests
  • Set a Goal
  • Take Massive Action (MOST IMPORTANT STEP)
  • Stop Giving a Fuck About Other’s Opinions of You and What You are Trying to Accomplish.

But…But…But…it’s not that simple

Bullshit!  Stop lying to yourself.  You have two choices here:  Live the life you want or wake up one day at 80 or 90 years old and have regret that you didn’t get off your ass and do more with your life.  You see that hot girl you like…go up and talk to her…nothing bad is going to happen if you just say hi.  Let the chips fall where they may.  If you don’t succeed the first time, pick yourself back up and do it over again.

Obsession is the key to success.  You have to not only want to achieve the goal, you must be obsessed with the goal.  Do everything in your power to get to it.  Victory tastes a hell of a lot better than failure.  Once you taste that victory, you will want to taste it again and again.
People are always willing to give their opinions on matters that don’t concern them (aka giving a fuck).  As a Modern Day Viking you have to sometimes say, “you know what?  I appreciate your concern, but go fuck yourself”.
Surround yourself with like-minded people.  Lose the idiot friends that are going nowhere with their lives because they will just drag you to their hell with them.  I know it is cliche to say you become who you associate with, but it is absolutely true.  After over 4 decades in this life, this is the one thing I wish I had known 30 years ago.
“Oh your just another old guy telling me stuff”….I’m old for a reason fucktard!  I have been where you are going and if you take your head out of your ass just for a moment and listen, you will very quickly find out that what I am telling you is worth its weight in Viking Gold!!!
Get out there and take what is yours, because no one is going to do it for you.